Who I Am
I came to this work through my own body.
For years I struggled with sexual shame and performance anxiety – the kind that talk therapy could name but never quite reach. It wasn’t until I discovered somatic work that something shifted. Not through fixing, but through reconnecting.
Anxiety began to give way to presence.
Presence began to give way to pleasure.
That transformation is why I do this work today.
I am a white European immigrant living in Oaxaca, and I hold that reality with care. The spaces that formed me – the trainings, the communities, the years of personal exploration – were available to me in part because of the privilege I carry. I don’t take that lightly. Being part of the Oaxacan fabric means showing up with humility, with genuine curiosity about the people I work with, and with a commitment to reflect on the power dynamics that shape all of our experiences. I won’t assume your reality from my own social location. I will follow your lead.
My mission with this work is simple: to support people in undoing cultural conditioning and (re)claiming their eros.
I welcome anyone ready to take that journey.
My Approach
My path has wound through neo-tantric and sex-positive somatic spaces, a systemic coaching formation at the Schlossberginstitut in Vienna, and a deep dive into tantric massage with Ingo at Men-Tantra in Berlin.
For five years I dedicated myself to the art of tantric massage — witnessing firsthand how conscious touch can be genuinely transformative. Not just relaxing, but capable of shifting something deep within.
This led me toward somatic sex education and my training at the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education (ISSSE) in Victoria, Canada. Today I bring this global journey to my home in Oaxaca, where I hold space for others to explore their own embodiment.
Each step has deepened my conviction: the body holds what the mind cannot always reach.